Burn-out, illness and absenteeism
from work are the risks for adult children who are providing care for aging parents,
looking after their own families and managing a career. That was the message from
Maureen Osis, guest speaker at the launch of a breakthrough new elder care program
at Millrise Place in Calgary. Osis, registered nurse, family therapist and co-founder
of ElderWise Inc., spoke about the value of relief and respite for mid-life working
adults who are often stretched to the limit.
“Many adult children provide the major source of support
 for older adults in the community and often accept both the responsibility and
 the opportunity to support their aging parents and family members,” says
 Osis. “Frequently called the ‘sandwich generation’ they find
 themselves caught between raising their own kids, caring for their parents and
 trying to thrive at work.”
 The backup elder care program is the latest venture of Kids & Company, Canada’s
 foremost provider of corporate childcare. The program is being launched at Millrise
 Place, which provides a safe, nurturing and stimulating environment for older
 adults. Employees of the participating pilot companies will be able to bring
 their aging parents to the centre when existing living/care arrangements fail,
 as a temporary backup solution. Arrangements can also be made with Millrise
 Place for adult children to bring their parents on a regular basis, a couple
 of days a week or just when they need some respite.
 Victoria Sopik, Kids & Company founder and CEO works closely with family-oriented
 corporations to develop progressive childcare options for their employees. Five
 companies are participating in a pilot elder care program, to offer their employees
 temporary backup elder care. The five companies – RBC, Deloitte, Nexen,
 Enbridge and BP – are existing Kids & Company child care clients.
 “Clients like these, who blazed a trail by helping employees with childcare,
 realize that family responsibilities don’t stop with young children and
 elder care is emerging as a major source of stress and extra work for employees,”
 says Sopik. “In some cases, it’s resulting in reduced hours or missed
 work to take care of aging parents or inlaws,” says Sopik. 
“We also have a childcare facility at Millrise Place so
 there are wonderful opportunities to bring together the kids and the seniors
 for intergenerational programming,” says Herve Faucher, owner representative,
 Triple A Living Communities Inc. “Research shows that older adults enjoy
 spending time with toddlers and many of the kids don’t have grandparents
 nearby so it’s a perfect partnership.”
With changing population demographics, the need for these kinds
 of programs is likely to grow. In fact, a recent Statistics Canada report revealed
 that 1.7 million adults aged 45 to 64 are providing informal elder care to 2.3
 million seniors, 75 per cent of whom are aging parents or in-laws. Many of them
 belong to the so-called sandwich generation, people who are raising young children,
 working full-time and looking after parents. 
According to Sopik, over the past decade, “progressive
 organizations have started to offer employees everything from corporate childcare
 to flexible hours. While family-friendly policies are a welcome relief to parents
 of young kids, most don’t take into account the other members of an employee’s
 family that might need their attention and assistance.” 
This sentiment is echoed by Alexis Wise, vice president, LifeSpeak
 Inc. which works with corporations across Canada to offer workshops in the workplace
 that help employees maintain a work/life quality. Guest speaker Maureen Osis,
 is part of LifeSpeak’s Generations At Work expert speaker roster.
“At LifeSpeak, we applaud employers who have recognized
 the demands placed on their employees by either their parenting responsibilities
 or their eldercare responsibilities, or both in the case of the sandwich generation,”
 says Wise. “Through expert speakers like Maureen, we’re able to
 help corporations give their employees valuable information, tips and coping
 strategies.”
About Kids & Company 
 With 12 childcare centres in the Greater Toronto Area and additional facilities
 in London, Waterloo, Ottawa and Calgary, Kids & Company works directly with
 family-oriented corporations to develop progressive childcare options for their
 employees. In addition to the Millrise Place location, Kids & Company has
 two other Calgary childcare locations – 4033 Bow Trail SW and 505 4th
 Ave SW. Please visit us at www.kidsandcompany.ca.
LifeSpeak Inc.
 Balancing a demanding career and a vibrant personal life can be a challenging
 endeavour. LifeSpeak is dedicated to addressing this challenge by bringing information
 and support to busy employees to help them thrive in all that they do. LifeSpeak
 offers customized workshop series that are held in the workplace. Workshops
 may be selected from the Parents At Work, Generations At Work and Vitality At
 Work programs.

